Final shortlist. Walk through each name. No right answer.
No final shortlist yet. Keep swiping and finding matches until you both said yes to ~10 names. Then move them here. Once you do, this page will show you two options:
A printable list of question cards to go through together.
A copy-paste prompt that drops your shortlist into Claude.ai for a guided, structured conversation.
Two ways to do this:
Quick way — read the questions below together, talk through each name. Print the page if you want to scribble notes. ~20 minutes.
Guided way — paste a prompt into Claude.ai and let Claude walk you through structured questions, one name at a time, with a wrap-up at the end. ~30–45 minutes, more thorough.
The prompt includes your actual shortlist. Paste it into a fresh Claude.ai conversation, then talk through it together — Claude facilitates, doesn't decide.
How to use the questions below.
Sit somewhere comfortable. Take one name at a time. Each partner answers out loud. No interrupting. Then swap. The one with the strongest "yes" feeling — that's a win. Clear "no" — out. Tie? Park overnight.
Tip. Print this page. Mark up the cards with notes. The conversation is the point.